Step 1 – Make her comfortable
First thing first, you’re going to make her comfortable. Foreplay is key here. Kissing, touching, rubbing, just ease in to things here. This technique is done with the fingers. Just be sure she is warmed up, wet, and ready. Basic fingering explanation here. Unlike men, in order to reach a great orgasm and get aroused women prefer to be fingered slowly and gently. Don’t Rush! (Read: where is the G Spot exactly?)
Step 2 – Make sure she is relaxed
She has to be relaxed for this to work. This is like I said a really powerful technique, and different from other types of orgasm women can have. So make sure she is comfortable all the way around. (Note: the fluid she’ll be releasing during orgasm is not a pee)
Step 3 – Get her wet and turned on. When she starts playing with her vagina, you can also massage the outside of the vagina a little bit, you can dip a finger in there, play a little bit with the clitoris. To be honest you just try to make her wet here. This is actually the real trick to make her orgasm; slow build-up, combined with passionate kissing and dirty talking. Take your time doing this as this is no real rush. Now when she is relaxed and wet. She is ready. Take two fingers (I personally use the middle and ring finger to make this method easier to do). You should be able to notice if she has orgasmed or not.
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Step 4 – Slide 2 Fingers in Her and Find the “spongy” area on the top wall
When you’re inside, you’re going to look towards the top of her vagina and fell for something called the urethra sponge (will be 1-2 inches in and will feel unique). When you feel it there this is what you are going to do. “A come hither” motion. The key is to keep constant pressure on the “sponge” and continue with the come hither motion.
Step 5 - This is important. When your woman is close to squirting, she will get a
sensation that she needs to pass out urine, so she will stop you and
tell you she needs to pee. However, in reality that is not a sensation
to pass out urine, so do not stop the fingering
and make sure you warn her about this. (The fluid that she will be expelling is a natural part of her body response. The amount of it, is pretty small; just around 3-50ml.)
Take her legs and spread them
and make sure you have a grip on her so that your girl does not move and
injure herself. When she gets the sensation to pee, it only means that
she is about to ejaculate, so you should keep going harder.
Bonus tip: Keep this up and increase speed and pressure as she gets more into it. If do it long enough this will work. It can take between 5 and 15 minutes. The vast majority of women are able to squirt with this method.
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