Have the intention of giving a woman an orgasm, but don't tell here this is your goal. Otherwise, she will feel too much pressure and won't be able to have an orgasm. You can start with foreplay to kick start your sex, romantic kissing, touching her skin so she will feel more ready and relaxed.
Step 2: Lubricate your hands and her vagina with grape seed oil.
Grapeseed oil is safe for the vagina. If you use a condom afterwards, be sure to wash off all the grape seed oil.
Step 3: Locate
The clitoris is just above the vaginal opening.
Step 4: Stimulate
- Technique 1: 1 O'clock stroking
Put one thumb in her vagina and push down. Use the index finger of your other hand to lightly stroke her clitoris at the 1 O'clock position.
- Technique 2: Clit blowjob
Suck her clitoris like you would suck her nipple. Alternate between long continuous sucks and short fast sucks.
- Technique 3: The kivin method
Kneel beside her and lick backwards and forwards just below her clitoris
Step 5: Persist
The first clitoral orgasm may take up to 15 minutes. If she doesn't have a clitoral orgasm after 15 minutes, STOP. Don't say anything and try again the next day.
Step 6: Clitoral Orgasm
She will have involuntary anal contractions
